When the sphere of psychological aid was only beginning to emerge in post-Soviet space, most people were absorbed by the myths that the main function of a psychologist - to give advice that the psychologist - almost a magician and that he can see through people. A list of these myths can be continued, but their basic idea is that a psychologist - superman, able to solve any problems for the person.
To the present day some of these myths disappeared. On the forums you can see that it is now perceived as an assistant psychologist man in solving problems, but not as something separate that person does something instead. Gradually there is an understanding that the psychologist is intended to help a person to solve the problem itself , only specialist directs a person to the findings. And furthermore, that the psychologist - also people with their problems, fears, and even errors.
But myths just changed. Despite the fact that from a psychologist is no longer waiting ready tips There is still a belief that only a psychologist can help a person get out of a difficult situation. That is, without the personality psychologist growth, improvement and solution to many life crises seems inconceivable.
Is this true? There are many so-called " therapies " - forms of assistance and support in the difficult stages of human life. And many of them do not imply the presence of a psychologist at all! Their list is very diverse, ranging from art therapy, books therapy or therapy with the help of animals to shopping therapy and even a confession from the priest (were healing role is played not by itself priest and religious- mystical process and self-awareness) .
So what helps the client ? It turns out that each has the resources to overcome the difficulties to solve psychological problems, but sometimes they use these opportunities to open, dig like a treasure. With this idea in solidarity all psychologists and specialist help in this case plays the role of a shovel. But now it becomes obvious that this " shovel " can be and other external influences on man. The main condition - these influences should be directed to the solution of human problems.
Furthermore (and, incidentally, it will confirm any psychologist ), there is such a thing as "transfer". Psychologist and client - a unique kind of relationship in which the person must adhere strictly to their roles. But sometimes it happens that the psychologist takes on a different role - a friend, teacher, parent, and so on, and the client at the time, respectively, in the role of Comrade passes, student, child... In such circumstances, we are not talking about psychological help, these processes are difficult to catch, not all psychologists are able to detect a change of roles and come back.
Thus it appears that other mechanisms of psychological help without a second person with its own characteristics, fears, resentments and other personal deformities can have an even more effective assistance, or at least do no harm.
To the present day some of these myths disappeared. On the forums you can see that it is now perceived as an assistant psychologist man in solving problems, but not as something separate that person does something instead. Gradually there is an understanding that the psychologist is intended to help a person to solve the problem itself , only specialist directs a person to the findings. And furthermore, that the psychologist - also people with their problems, fears, and even errors.
But myths just changed. Despite the fact that from a psychologist is no longer waiting ready tips There is still a belief that only a psychologist can help a person get out of a difficult situation. That is, without the personality psychologist growth, improvement and solution to many life crises seems inconceivable.
Is this true? There are many so-called " therapies " - forms of assistance and support in the difficult stages of human life. And many of them do not imply the presence of a psychologist at all! Their list is very diverse, ranging from art therapy, books therapy or therapy with the help of animals to shopping therapy and even a confession from the priest (were healing role is played not by itself priest and religious- mystical process and self-awareness) .
So what helps the client ? It turns out that each has the resources to overcome the difficulties to solve psychological problems, but sometimes they use these opportunities to open, dig like a treasure. With this idea in solidarity all psychologists and specialist help in this case plays the role of a shovel. But now it becomes obvious that this " shovel " can be and other external influences on man. The main condition - these influences should be directed to the solution of human problems.
Furthermore (and, incidentally, it will confirm any psychologist ), there is such a thing as "transfer". Psychologist and client - a unique kind of relationship in which the person must adhere strictly to their roles. But sometimes it happens that the psychologist takes on a different role - a friend, teacher, parent, and so on, and the client at the time, respectively, in the role of Comrade passes, student, child... In such circumstances, we are not talking about psychological help, these processes are difficult to catch, not all psychologists are able to detect a change of roles and come back.
Thus it appears that other mechanisms of psychological help without a second person with its own characteristics, fears, resentments and other personal deformities can have an even more effective assistance, or at least do no harm.
Probably already thinking about it and the authors of the " robot psychologist Froid ". The site www.froid.su users have the opportunity to consult in fact the program. As the site says , in the course of such consultation is subject to the same mechanisms that are used and psychotherapists in their work. This program can not be transferred to a person their stereotypes , as is the case with psychologists.
Needless to say that such forms of assistance can not replace a live person? Of course not. But another question : what the client needs ? Is it always necessary is a living person? Most likely, there are cases where assistance is indispensable living psychologist . By the way, the developers site www.froid.su stress that in some very complex problems , as well as mental illness consultation with the robot may not have expected aid .
But surely the capacity utilization of the client will give a positive result. Besides, independently thinking on his problem , the person becomes more adaptable to new problems , then it is easier to solve problems , as he learns the methods and practices that can be applied without a live specialist nearby.
Maybe it's time to think about how much a person is able to independently improve their lives . Many studies suggest that the subconscious mind is fraught with enormous resources and opportunities that a person uses his brain is not at full strength (5 to 10%). Maybe look into yourself , we will find more than a set of tips and opinions from other people's mouths.
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